The power is in our hands

Many people do bad things that hurt us a lot…..It can be friends, parents, children, husband, boyfriend, anyone…..
They hurt us with deeds, words, betrayals, secrets…
Consciously or not consciously
Does it affect them?
Maybe….
But mostly No…
They cause us pain, suffering, sadness, maybe even worse things….
Later they come with the words “Forgive me, it won’t happen again, it wasn’t my intention”
Or they just continue with their lives as  nothing happened and don’t even apologize…..
Those who asked for forgiveness, we forgave them, didn’t we?
But have we really forgiven?
Let’s accept the apology, say we’ve forgiven, let’s move on as if it never happened….. But have we really forgiven?
We say we are, but then why does it still hurt?
We keep reminding ourselves, and it still hurts us……
We think and wonder if we would been hurt if we had done something differently, if we had changed anything?
If you ask yourself constantly and experience the same pain again and again, it means that you have not forgiven…..

Maybe you don’t talk to or see some people because you couldn’t forgive…..
It doesn’t bother them, believe me… They continue to live their lives happily, while you continue to live unhappily, stuck in the past, judging the people who are with you now because of them….. I know….. Because I was also in your place…..
Is not easy…..
It hurts, it eats, it destroys us and our future, but also the people around us….
I can tell you that after forgiving all the people who hurt me and some of them are still hurting me, I feel better….I enjoy in life, I am happy, I am thankful…..I feel free… .I don’t get attached to them…..I let them go….
They don’t matter, I AM…
Why allow ourselves to be hurt when we have the power to be happy……
Why focus on bad experiences that do not serve us?
Forgive sincerely and you will see a great improvement in you and your life…..
Forgive them, wish them happiness in life from the bottom of your heart…..You are not a judge, you cannot judge those people for their actions….
There is a great power above us that will judge each of them and give them what they deserve……
You deserve happiness…..
Now I’m going to write you two methods that have helped me incredibly……I sincerely hope they will help you too…..Try it…..

Do the method that suits you……

Method 1………

Think about all the people who hurt you, with whom you talk or not, who are still with you or not….
Then talk to each one individually……Stay with one person until you feel better…..You will feel relief and joy…..
When you feel joy, move on to another person and so on…
Imagine that person, the pain they caused you and tell them: “You are lucky to have entered in my life…
I am grateful to you! I learned a new lesson. Thank you!
Now I have to move on…..
I believe that this experience will bring me good things in the future….Goodbye!
If I get attached to you, I won’t learn to love the present and the people I’m with now….I release you! Goodbye!
I wish you all the best in life!

Method 2……

With this method you turn to God……

Imagine that you are in front of God and say to him:
“Lord, it’s hard, but I believe and accept from the bottom of my heart that it was your will and that it happened for my good….Maybe I don’t see that good yet, but I know it exists for me”!

Every time you remember a bad experience, or you are experiencing one now,repeat these words…..

Think and take good things out of that experience….I’m sure there are some…..
I believe you will succeed, don’t give up……
I wish you a lot of success and happiness because you deserve it…..