Love. Each of us is looking for love. Many times we find it and think that it is true love, that it is what we were looking for, and then all disappears.
We know that love is mutual, we know how much we love each other, but it still doesn’t work out.
We become sad, disappointed and think that we have lost our soulmate that we will never find again.
Is that really so?

Do we even know what love is?
Do we know how to recognize it?
How do we know that this person is right for us and that what we live with them is love?
How?

There is a woman I love to listen to.
She helped me a lot and still helps me. With her words, lessons and experiences from her personal life.
She found out what love is at the age of 44.
As she says, she is now living a fairy tale.
In one of her videos, she explained that she now knows what love looks like after many years of Abraham’s teachings.
You can find more about it in Abraham Hick’s videos.

They taught us that love hurts, that we have to fight for it, that we have to endure various things for love.
That is not so.
Love is something beautiful, love does not hurt, does not blackmail and conditions.
If so then it is not love.
But how do we know what it is?
That’s a question many of us ask.
In one word, love is freedom.
Love is when you love and be loved without conditions, without pretending to be what you are not.
Love is when you are completely free and you live that freedom with your partner

There is much more to what love is.
I will say no more about it.
I want to share with you an experience that will help you get over a breakup with a loved one whom you thought was the right one, or you think you will never find such love again….

Many, many years ago, I met a person.
Very quickly it turned into something incredible, something I couldn’t even imagine. The love was mutual.
It was like in a movie, with all the love messages, romantic surprises, endless conversations, difficult partings and never enough time when you are together.
Every woman’s dream, right?
Did I think it was true love? I did.
Did he think it was true love? Yes.
Then why did it hurt so much in addition to all that?
Why are we not together despite all the attempts?
There were so many problems that we solved and overcame.
But how do you overcome death?
Many people tried to separate us, but nothing worked.
One day he lost a very close person who was against our relationship.
We did not manage to overcome that.
After the death of that person, we immediately parted ways.
We cried together.
That was the end.
We didn’t see or hear from each other again. Never.
My question was: If he is my soul mate, why did this happen?

He was not my soul mate. He was not my true love.
Reading and listening about it, I learned that some people come into our lives only to teach us some things and then leave.
They should not stay. They are not destined to stay.
That’s how I understood his role in my life.
He is not in my life because he is my soul mate or the love of my life. No.
He came into my life to show me what love looks like.
How beautiful love can be.
But it wasn’t true love, there was too much pain, and true love doesn’t hurt.

Now if you have understood all this, I will tell you what happens to many who do not understand.
Usually, after a breakup, people think that they have lost their soulmate, that they will never find it again, that every next love will not be what it was, and they destroy every chance of being happy and finding the love of their life.
They simply lower their criteria because they think that such a person does not exist.
That’s a big mistake.
I’ll tell you a secret now.
Exists.
There is an even better, beautiful, fulfilled person waiting for you.
The one who will show you that love doesn’t hurt.
She will teach you what the love that you will live with her really is.

Now, if you’re sad about the breakup, don’t be.
Everything happens for a reason and believe that there is always something better for you.
As they say: After every storm, the sun comes out.
It’s like that for everything in life.