Do you believe that when someone insults you, it can be funny, even if he uses more serious insults to hurt you, you laugh more and more?
Let me tell you, it is possible.
If you are in a situation where you cannot get away from such a person, or there are great reasons to stay and listen to hard words every day, I can tell you that there is a solution and it is very simple.

I am writing this from my personal experience.
For a period of my life, there was one person I was forced to stay with, and I couldn’t find a way out for a couple of years.
I was simply stuck with him. That can easily happen to any woman, and I believe it happens to many.
There are such people who charm you, are romantic, do various things to amaze you and little by little we fall in love.
What after?
I went through that experience in addition to everything that happened to me in my life.
I met a person who blew me away, I couldn’t believe that such a person exists in this world, it was every woman’s dream until the beginning of ours life together.
Problems started from the first evening, I was scared and wanted to leave immediately, but he begged me. I forgave him.
Apologies came in various beautiful ways. Over time it got worse and worse.
He didn’t abuse me physically, but the words he said hurt me more than any blow.
He called me various names, the worst, it was terrible and there was no way out.
I didn’t know what to do, I cried for hours, days, years, when he wasn’t there. When he saw my tears, it got worse. I had no one by my side, I didn’t want to say anything to anyone, I was ashamed.
Later, I began to return the insults, so the arguments escalated and I was afraid for myself.
The worst thing about all this is that they blame us for all this, they say we deserved it.
I was a person who never said a bad word until then, I didn’t recognize myself.
I decided to say enough and started reading.

That period of my life was also difficult, I was lonely, humiliated, insulted every God’s day, but I still survived. Now I am grateful for that experience.
If you can’t leave such a person, like me, just stay there, but change things in your favor, when you can’t leave, he will leave.
It’s not easy to do, and it is.
Meditate, calm yourself, read, in time you will notice a change.
When insults, curses and everything else start, try to be quiet, don’t retaliate, observe, it will be really difficult in the beginning not to react as you are used to.
Over time, you will learn not to react at all, later it won’t even hurt those words.
You will create protection for yourself.
Observe the condition of that person while insulting and humiliating you, then ask yourself, What is wrong with him in his life, what happened to him that made him like this?
While all this continues, you think, believe me, while you are thinking, you will not even notice the words addressed to you.
When you practice it, you keep silent and don’t answer, you are calm, expect even more pressure. That person will try in every possible way to elicit a reaction, they will even use your most painful place that they know because you trusted them to tell them, they will also use that against yours.
Then I couldn’t keep quiet either.
Over time, he will also get used to your silence, he will start asking various questions. Answer calmly or say that you no longer want to participate in this.

In the previous article, I told you about the switch, read it.
All that in combination will drive that person to madness. You have to be a little more careful here, even be ready to protect yourself.
Your condition is new to him, he doesn’t know what’s going on with you, so he will probably start to suspect that you have a lover.
Since your life is at stake, you will have to defend yourself, you will use nice words, you will be calm and convince that person that there is no one in your life besides him, that your change is for your future.

As you train yourself more and more, work on yourself, you will pay less and less attention to everything that disturbs your peace.
It won’t stop, it won’t change, be sure, it’s all lies. Trust me.
You just keep doing what you’re doing, one day when everything starts again you’ll start laughing, all words will be funny. I recommend you better laugh to yourself, it’s safer.
It will be easier for you.
You can also try to imagine some funny scene from a cartoon, how you hit him and how he falls, that will immediately change your mood. Just imagine. Don’t do it in reality at all.
Slowly everything will calm down, disappear one by one and one day that person will come and tell you that you have tired him, that he can’t take it anymore and is leaving you.

It will be the happiest day of your life.

Then your life begins again.
Celebrate, I did.
Enjoy life and use this experience…
I love you.