When your heart and soul are pure and beautiful, beauty is in the background…

For all the people who don’t love themselves… For those who run away from the mirror, for those who were teased at school, on the street, in stores…

Life is not easy! Do you think that everything will fall to you from God?! You won’t do anything! You try for nothing, listen to me! Look at yourself! What do you look like?!

Are you familiar with this?

Sentences that hurt us, every time we remember them… Maybe we want to change or do something, but we give up because of these sentences… They are so deep inside us and they only slow us down… It doesn’t matter where did they come from,they are still in us…

We all came into this world as we should be…..With all the flaws….

I accepted my body a long time ago, with all its flaws…..It took time to break those chains….Get rid of those sentences in my head, don’t listen to what anyone says and love myself….It’s hard, but it’s easy. .. There are so many books and videos on this that can help….Just start…..

If we had known about it earlier, if we had been taught at school, if now children are taught this at school….. It would have been easier…. Instead of the mentioned sentences, if they had taught us that the most important thing is to love yourself….

Let’s get back to the topic…

It was difficult for me to accept my body, while my very close friend whom I have known since childhood has many flaws that she accepted…. She had a beautiful body, but again she had problems with speech, ears, her eyebrows were very protruding and indented eyes, round and flat nails and much more….Besides all that, everyone who met her loved her…..There were also those who did not meet her, who called her various ugly words, especially at school.. ..The words addressed to her were painful for us, her friends, but they didn’t hurt her….Countless times we wanted to stand up for her, but she didn’t allow us….She wasn’t affected by those words…She saw herself in a special way….She loved all her flaws….When we were getting ready to go out, we all changed our clothes many times, but not her……

She saw herself as beautiful and acted like that….She was the first to have a boyfriend…..Every one of her boyfriends was wow….Beautiful…..We were proud of her, and to be honest, a bit jealous….We wondered how she manages it?
How can she be satisfied, happy and have everything she wants?
She loved herself….God made it that way and she couldn’t change it….She accepted it, she even made fun of herself….
Maybe she wasn’t physically beautiful, but her soul was…..
She was funny, crazy about some things, kind and most importantly a very good person….She had an amazing memory….I often joke that her brain is like a computer….
Our conversations last a very long time, and when we see each other the whole day is a bit…… She remembers so many things it’s unbelievable….. I really admire her…..

As they say: “God gives something and takes something away”.

It’s up to us how we deal with it…

He took her physical appearance and gave her an inner one…..

She was married five times, she has a child….She was not interested in anything….She was looking for a person who would love her for her inner beauty, not her outer beauty….She was constantly insulted and humiliated, especially because of her marriage.. ..She didn’t pay attention to that….She knew what she wanted…..As she would say, I quote: “Let them laugh, I don’t care….I will get married a thousand more times and that person will appear” …..
Believe me she succeeded…..She found that person who sees her beauty…..She succeeded from the fifth time….They have been married for a long time…..He cares about her….Love her…..Respect her….Do everything to make her happy….They got one more child and soon they are expecting twins…..
She is living a fairy tale now…
I believe you can too…