Parents, grandparents, relatives, friends, partner….. So many people…… All of them try to influence us, our lives, decisions…. If we let them and they want to…

Often we are not even aware, and someone has already changed our decision with simple words: “Not like that, this is better…..I just want to help you”….

If you start thinking about it, you have already changed your decision and accepted someone else’s….

My advice is: Don’t change your decisions, whether they are related to love, work, friendship, your life…..It doesn’t matter….Don’t change your decision….That thought didn’t come into your head just like that ….It has some meaning for you, you need it….Maybe it’s wrong, maybe it’s not, maybe it works, maybe it doesn’t….. Whatever it is, you’ll get success, a lesson or an experience that will give you a lot mean in the future….However, there is someone above us who knows everything….Who knows what is best for us, that’s why he helps us in many ways through experiences….

Success, love, laughter, crying, sadness, pain, loss….. Everything is there for our own good…. It depends again on how one looks at it…. Many people get lost in all that….

I lived in a small village….Within a radius of a hundred kilometers, everybody knew somebody….Everybody knew each other…That’s a lot of pressure, especially for female children and women…As I grew up, I had a great desire to live in a city where no one knows anyone….Who would have thought, years later it came true…..Thanks to my decisions, experiences, perseverance and certainly not allowing anyone to change my decisions no matter how much they hurt me …..Now I live in a big city, I don’t even know my first neighbor…It’s so wonderful….Freeing….I can walk out of the kitchen full of flour, and no one pays attention to me.. ..

Nobody asks why I wore that, whether I lost weight or gained weight, why you don’t have makeup or why I have too much makeup, where I’m going and when I’m coming back…. Nobody cares…. My dream came true….

However, my parents, especially my mother, still blame me for a lot of things… They don’t see my happiness….. In every conversation my mother finds something from the past and convinces me that it would have been better if I had listened to her… .That’s why even though they are my parents, our conversations have been short and rare for some time now….

I tried my best to make them proud of me, but it doesn’t work….What people say is more important than the child’s peace and happiness…

After the divorce, I was depressed, not because of the divorce, but because of those people….You go down the road, at least a dozen of them stop you to ask how I am….Really…😀Poor me, a divorcee with a child….Guilty was transferred to me, I didn’t save the marriage… My ex cheated on me with a woman from my village, when I left his house the day after he came to live with her in my village… And again, it’s my fault. ….I lived with those people for 25 years, where other people’s lives are more important to them than their own….Everyone looks out for other people’s business and no one’s own…It’s the same today….

For a long time, I walked with my head down, because of them…. Then I let my inner voice guide me… I held my head up, let them talk and was very proud and grateful that I got a divorce…. I didn’t want to live like that,and no one could convince me otherwise…

Whatever your current situation is, relax…..Allow the voice in your head to tell you what’s best for you…..Shut down other people’s voices….However well they may think of you, if if you think it’s not, don’t do it….Do what you love, what you want, even if it doesn’t go well, you’ll learn something, I’m sure….

Your relationships don’t work out, you’re always hurt…..It’s okay….You won’t give up on love because of that….You need to understand that those people were in your life to show you what you want and what you don’t. ….To show you that you deserve better….When you realize that, your true love will come when you least expect it….

When it comes to work, the same is true….You’ve tried and it doesn’t work….Good…Don’t give up….You will find what you love to do, what makes you happy….

It’s like that for everything in life….You just need to listen and love yourself the most….

Dream…..And your decisions will lead you to the dream….
Life can be a fairy tale…